Wow! Haha! Where does one begin? Okay, so here goes…
My name is Alessandro. I’m 26 years-old, a Canadian-Italian (I don’t speak Italian – that’s another story), who currently lives in Toronto, Canada. I pay the bills by working in marketing, but have an immense passion for music and people. With this passion recognized by an old and dear friend of mine (who just so happens to be one of the gay community’s most favoured DJs), I was presented with an opportunity to put on a new monthly party in Toronto.

This event, POP★MACHINE, has become an overnight success in the Toronto gay scene. I promote, host and co-DJ the event, and love every minute of doing so. Also, in my spare time, I love to write, compose, sing and produce my own music. It’s been an outlet for me since I was 8, and has been a constant companion in getting me through the day-to-day grind.

While I feel as though I don’t have many requirements when it comes to finding my ideal partner, the ones I do look for are often hard to meet. Communication is unbelievably important; It’s so easy to become comfortable – relatively quickly – and coast along in a relationship. That’s definitely a habit I try to avoid. Remaining conscious and self-aware is something I strive for in all of my relationships, regardless of their romantic nature.

There is something, ultimately, attractive about a confident man. Not a cocky one… well, you know what I mean (insert wink here). Being super social requires a partner who is able to hold his own in a room where everyone essentially knows my name (cue the ‘Cheers’ theme song). I need someone who isn’t intimidated by this, and won’t develop insecurities when I am talking to other men. I need him to be confident in knowing that, at the end of the night, I am going home with him.

I believe that you can’t help who you love and who you don’t, but sexual chemistry is the real ice breaker. I enjoy an experienced lover (not a virgin hunter over here). Someone who knows what they like and isn’t afraid to communicate it (there’s that need for communication again!) is a real turn on. I don’t believe in labels, so the bottom/top thing doesn’t really appeal to me. I believe in making one another feel good and loved, and exploring how to accomplish that with one another is only half the fun.

This brings me to the male physique: In gay culture, there is such an emphasis on having the ideal Adonis-like body. It’s certainly nothing to complain about, but it’s not a prerequisite. Overall health is important. It’s all about the face; I am a sucker for a beautiful face. I guess my logic behind this is that if I’m going to have to wake up to it every morning and come home to it every night, I want a face that I can’t wait to kiss.

Finally, the father of all qualities is… cue the drums… SENSE OF HUMOUR! My closest and dearest friends have a way of making me laugh uncontrollably. Essentially, I want my partner to do the same. I want him to become one of my best friends who I can trust, love, be vulnerable with and laugh about the silly stuff with too.

All in all, to say that I am actively looking for my ideal partner right now would be a lie. But I am ready, willing and able to embrace him when we do finally meet! Until then ... this boy just wants to have fun.

Main profile photo by Sergio Alvarado

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