I have a great job developing water supply projects to meet the needs of the bay area, have a wonderful home and a true friend in my dog (who happens to be right by my side as I type this biography). What is missing is someone to share my life with. Not just a someone, but a person that is loving and trustful but also has the ability to be my sexual equal (a devil inside and out). I am going to take some time finding that someone (I am in no rush).

When it comes to a boyfriend, I’m looking for a sense of humor, strong character and personality. I like a guy who has goals and plans to achieve those goals. I want a man who loves a night in with a pizza just as much as a night out on the town. I also look for a guy who is taller than me (I’m 5’11”). Basically, I’m the little spoon – and I want a man who can be my big spoon.

I keep myself in shape and healthy, but I’m not looking for someone who obsesses about body image. I’d ideally like a fit man – my age or older – who has a successful, independent life and is looking to start on a fresh slate. I tend to gravitate towards white guys – just an aesthetic preference – but I have dated men of all races and ethnicities. Travel is a big deal to me, and finding someone to share those experiences with would be ideal. It’s rare for me to stay in San Francisco for more than a month straight, so be prepared to pack up for at least one or two weekend outings a month.

The type of guys I tend to go for are usually older, mid-thirties is a good starting off point. Open communication in a relationship is vital. I’m a big boy, and rejection is actually not that hard to swallow. Despite being labeled an extrovert, I don’t discuss my private life with strangers (that includes Internet friends). If you got out on a date with me just to see if I’ll write about you, I’m sorry to say, you’re probably not that interesting.

With me, nothing is ever static and I am always constantly trying to reinvent myself which is why my tastes in guys always seem to change. The misunderstood and quirky have a special place in my heart. But some qualities that have always been consistent are that I tend to be attracted to, dark-featured, muscular and/or stocky guys. Generally, a guy who takes care of himself