I’m an avid believer that you can do anything you set your mind to which is why I think I have taken a hand at every sport possible. Ultimately I ended up sticking with soccer and to this day still play with the DST League here in the city! I’m very laid back but I love getting rough at times, Though at the end of the day I’m a huge softy who wears his heart on his sleeve. I guess you could say I’m looking for the perfect guy (but who isn’t) Not perfect in the sense that everything is perfect, but in the sense that we fit together well. I can be a handful at times and love a guy who can have fun, but put me in my place when needed as I’m never the serious type.

In a guy, I want him to be a nice and caring person to me and to others. Looks aren’t much of a concern for me, personality is a lot more important. I want to be with a guy who wants to spend as much time with me as he can. And of course I want to be with someone who is loyal and tells the truth. Also, I want to be with a guy who knows they are ready for a commitment and is willing to spend the rest of his life with me.

My name is Jeff, I am 33 years old, and I was born in Bermuda. When I was growing up the island was dangerously homophobic, so after a year of pleading with my parents I spent my 14th birthday at Ridley College in St. Catharines, Ontario. From there I went to King’s College at the University of Western Ontario to spend 4 years working towards a double concentration Psychology/Philosophy degree. After University I bounced around between careers for a while. I was a Hairstylist (trained at George Brown and then Toni & Guy) for about 5 years then a Fashion Stylist (I styled the cover of Chart Magazine and styled runway shows for several of Canada’s top designers) for around 2 years, before moving to San Francisco for 2 years to study Electronic Music Production.

In terms of what I am into, generally I am really just looking for a man that makes me feel comfortable and safe at all times. This individual must possess a certain quality and energy that I will know is what I’m looking for when I’m around that person. I am a empathetic kind of person, I like to treat people as I like to be treated and have no problems putting people in their place if need be (some call this blunt). This is due to my experiences related the job I have worked in a compassion clinic, helping people with all kinds of illnesses.

I am a true romantic, passionate and honest guy and so should you. In my opinion, Trust and Respect are the two most beautiful qualities someone has to offer to someone else.
I love to entertain, maybe due to my background. I was trained as a chef, and spent 10 years of my life working in the Luxury Hotel Management field (MBA from Cornell). It also allowed me to travel a lot and live in different countries but I consider Toronto home.