The guy who will be my match will be someone who will laugh with me, and not at me. He will build me up and support my endeavors, as opposed to knocking me down. I’ve learned the hard way that challenges and games are best left in the sports arena, and they have no place in a relationship. I enjoy being social, but I don’t define my life as a gay man by constantly being in the bars and clubs. My ideal mate wouldn’t either. Most importantly, I believe that romance and monogamy can still exist in our internet/social networking era.

I’m looking for someone with some passion and talent. Honestly if you’re not funny or at least a good audience then I will get bored pretty quickly. I also appreciate a dirty mind and a potty mouth. Anyone I date needs to be a secure person because I still get a fair amount of attention from being a television personality. It is what it is but some people can’t deal with it. My ideal man would be over 30, kind of rough around the edges but have it totally going on under the surface.

After having a 10 year relationship I decided it was long overdue and spent the last 8 plus years to grow. I focused on my career, family, building meaning friendships and grow spiritually – mentally so I could be the best person I can be. Today, I believe I am that person so when I stumbled upon Gay Bachelor Blog, I knew it was time for me to get back out there and open the doors to possibilities. I am ready to share my accomplishments and life with someone so why not start with Gay Bachelor Blog, plus it’s a fun way to do it.

I like to think of myself as a manic mess of extremes. I’m either bouncing off the walls covered in glitter and short shorts or I’m cuddled on the couch reading a book on business marketing (Currently reading “All Marketers Tell Stories” by the amazing and brilliant Seth Godin). As a product of the Spice Girls generation, I have followed my passions with reckless abandon and have really learned not to worry about what other people are thinking.

I am an aspiring comedian and talk show host and I currently live in NYC. To pay the bills I work as an Executive administrative Assistant and at this place of work it has supplied me with much needed material for my act. Most people come on these dating sites and they all say. “I don’t have a specific type!” I say forget those losers, I like my men the way that I like my coffee, dark and Spanish!  LOL