In a guy, I want him to be a nice and caring person to me and to others. Looks aren’t much of a concern for me, personality is a lot more important. I want to be with a guy who wants to spend as much time with me as he can. And of course I want to be with someone who is loyal and tells the truth. Also, I want to be with a guy who knows they are ready for a commitment and is willing to spend the rest of his life with me.

My name is Jeff, I am 33 years old, and I was born in Bermuda. When I was growing up the island was dangerously homophobic, so after a year of pleading with my parents I spent my 14th birthday at Ridley College in St. Catharines, Ontario. From there I went to King’s College at the University of Western Ontario to spend 4 years working towards a double concentration Psychology/Philosophy degree. After University I bounced around between careers for a while. I was a Hairstylist (trained at George Brown and then Toni & Guy) for about 5 years then a Fashion Stylist (I styled the cover of Chart Magazine and styled runway shows for several of Canada’s top designers) for around 2 years, before moving to San Francisco for 2 years to study Electronic Music Production.

In terms of what I am into, generally I am really just looking for a man that makes me feel comfortable and safe at all times. This individual must possess a certain quality and energy that I will know is what I’m looking for when I’m around that person. I am a empathetic kind of person, I like to treat people as I like to be treated and have no problems putting people in their place if need be (some call this blunt). This is due to my experiences related the job I have worked in a compassion clinic, helping people with all kinds of illnesses.

I am a true romantic, passionate and honest guy and so should you. In my opinion, Trust and Respect are the two most beautiful qualities someone has to offer to someone else.
I love to entertain, maybe due to my background. I was trained as a chef, and spent 10 years of my life working in the Luxury Hotel Management field (MBA from Cornell). It also allowed me to travel a lot and live in different countries but I consider Toronto home.

I trained as a Chef in Italy, and enjoyed the rockstar lifestyle of a Chef for several years. All this really means is I worked for 16 hours a day, rarely slept, and told myself it was all for “the glory” Eventually I grew tired of this and started practicing yoga. In hindsight this was the beginning of a series of shifts in direction. Shortly after this I signed a modelling contract with an agency in Toronto and flew away to South Africa. While in Capetown I was blessed to work just enough to fuell my wanderlust and in a rented 1968 Volkswaagen Beetle I connected with what I believe to be one of the most beautiful places on earth.